mariage..

mariage is the most hapening topic going around me...its the age effect...some just say "dont wanna marry"...reason-ill loose my liberty...others say "afterall marriage is an adjustment so njoy life nw "...reason-ur partner will expect a lot from you which even if you dont like will have give...many others say "ideal mariage is for the ones who dare to love and get the same person to share a life with"...reason-you already know the person,likes dislikes and moreover...u liked the person by self without anyone knowing about it.so its all yours....n parents say "Love before mariage is nonsense" reason-u are just looking at the outer beauty and not thinking about the practical life..how can you say you wont fall for another person with much more better abilities:-o...i normally learn from all when i get to know something new..but such varied answers on one such small topic leaves me confused....someday even ill say something while searching or after i get married..lets see :-)