let the wound be healed...

do you ever feel that some relations ship makes no sense at all.....however u try to improve it worsens.....how good u try to appear it its more bad....the more you try to prasise about the realtion the person who listens feels more worse...know the reason y.....both are wounded....LET THE WOUND HEAL...the more you try to do anythinf for the wound ..it becomes more mess...ask the cause of the wound....feel the intensity of the wound....realise how important the wound means to both....and clarify all these ...n then "WAIT"....nature will take its course...the wound WILL BE HEALED....later donot talk or discuss anything about the wound...bocoz the wounded had a tough time fighting with self to help it heal...then start talking as if nothing as such happened...life is too short to be lived...njoy the most that you can...