mariage..

mariage is the most hapening topic going around me...its the age effect...some just say "dont wanna marry"...reason-ill loose my liberty...others say "afterall marriage is an adjustment so njoy life nw "...reason-ur partner will expect a lot from you which even if you dont like will have give...many others say "ideal mariage is for the ones who dare to love and get the same person to share a life with"...reason-you already know the person,likes dislikes and moreover...u liked the person by self without anyone knowing about it.so its all yours....n parents say "Love before mariage is nonsense" reason-u are just looking at the outer beauty and not thinking about the practical life..how can you say you wont fall for another person with much more better abilities:-o...i normally learn from all when i get to know something new..but such varied answers on one such small topic leaves me confused....someday even ill say something while searching or after i get married..lets see :-)

love is all we need.

everyone says expectations hurt..yes it does..but y do v expect..coz we feel that we love them and never want to loose them..its true that we may love them but does that mean that we should always have them with us..this does not show that we love them..this shows that we are just too selfish and to keep us happy we want them, doesn`t it?...i expected a lot too..from many...and all have taught me to "STOP EXPECTING".instead "START LOVING".true love is never selfish..it just wants you to be happy,make others happy and live happily ever.love is a feeling that is truly self defined coz we can just feel it..and if we love the other person we would surely let them be free and moreover let other people too be lucky enough to meet the person whom you want with you so much.love and live..

difficult......

im on my way with my research...one of my favorite subjuects which i adored and honoured a lot...it was just too good to learn that actually even u can find sumthing new through research....i dont know way but i get carried away very easily by others say...but nw....im sort of disliking research......just because my proposal is not liked by sumone and becoz sumone made me feel that im doing no good...this research i wanted to do so that i could do sumthing good....but obstructions......lots in my way......lack of complete knowledge,unawareness and laziness at times may have contributed to this state of mine....
i just hope i may not reach at a situation that i may hate this subject that i just loved once...

todays topic is....LOOKING GOOD......how do we look good.....why r v so worried about our looks so much....is there any relation between looking good and living a successful life.....people who dont look good are they sad or unsuccessful...

let the wound be healed...

do you ever feel that some relations ship makes no sense at all.....however u try to improve it worsens.....how good u try to appear it its more bad....the more you try to prasise about the realtion the person who listens feels more worse...know the reason y.....both are wounded....LET THE WOUND HEAL...the more you try to do anythinf for the wound ..it becomes more mess...ask the cause of the wound....feel the intensity of the wound....realise how important the wound means to both....and clarify all these ...n then "WAIT"....nature will take its course...the wound WILL BE HEALED....later donot talk or discuss anything about the wound...bocoz the wounded had a tough time fighting with self to help it heal...then start talking as if nothing as such happened...life is too short to be lived...njoy the most that you can...