mariage..

mariage is the most hapening topic going around me...its the age effect...some just say "dont wanna marry"...reason-ill loose my liberty...others say "afterall marriage is an adjustment so njoy life nw "...reason-ur partner will expect a lot from you which even if you dont like will have give...many others say "ideal mariage is for the ones who dare to love and get the same person to share a life with"...reason-you already know the person,likes dislikes and moreover...u liked the person by self without anyone knowing about it.so its all yours....n parents say "Love before mariage is nonsense" reason-u are just looking at the outer beauty and not thinking about the practical life..how can you say you wont fall for another person with much more better abilities:-o...i normally learn from all when i get to know something new..but such varied answers on one such small topic leaves me confused....someday even ill say something while searching or after i get married..lets see :-)

love is all we need.

everyone says expectations hurt..yes it does..but y do v expect..coz we feel that we love them and never want to loose them..its true that we may love them but does that mean that we should always have them with us..this does not show that we love them..this shows that we are just too selfish and to keep us happy we want them, doesn`t it?...i expected a lot too..from many...and all have taught me to "STOP EXPECTING".instead "START LOVING".true love is never selfish..it just wants you to be happy,make others happy and live happily ever.love is a feeling that is truly self defined coz we can just feel it..and if we love the other person we would surely let them be free and moreover let other people too be lucky enough to meet the person whom you want with you so much.love and live..